{"id":17809,"date":"2020-01-25T03:08:40","date_gmt":"2020-01-25T03:08:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/chinese-reading\/lucky-to-be-sad-zhi-yuan-qing-yong-zai-2\/"},"modified":"2020-01-25T03:08:40","modified_gmt":"2020-01-25T03:08:40","slug":"lucky-to-be-sad-zhi-yuan-qing-yong-zai-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/de\/lucky-to-be-sad-zhi-yuan-qing-yong-zai-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Lucky to Be Sad \u53ea\u613f\u60c5\u6c38\u5728"},"content":{"rendered":"<\/p>\n

We sat, as always, front and center, four rows from the stage so we could have that all-important perfect view of our son performing. And, of course, so I could get ideal photos of the concert. <\/div>\n
xiàn\u0261 w\u01cen\u0261chán\u0261 yìb\u0101n ,w\u01d2men zuò zài qián pái kào zh\u014dn\u0261ji\u0101n de zuòwèi shàn\u0261 ,hé w\u01d4tái \u0261é zhe sì pái zuòwèi ,zhèyàn\u0261 w\u01d2men jiù nén\u0261 wánm\u011bi b\u01d4zhu\u014d dào érzi bi\u01ceoy\u01cen shí su\u01d2y\u01d2u de zhòn\u0261di\u01cen .d\u0101n\u0261rán ,w\u01d2 y\u012bnc\u01d0 y\u011b nén\u0261 p\u0101i dào zhè ch\u01cen\u0261 y\u012bnyuèhuì de l\u01d0xi\u01cen\u0261 zhàopiàn .<\/div>\n
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It was late May. My wife and I sat there feeling rather sentimental, thinking the same things but sitting quietly, keeping thoughts to ourselves. This was our youngest’s last high school concert—and to our sad 1)disbelief it was also ours. <\/div>\n
d\u0101n\u0261shí zhèn\u0261 zhí w\u01d4yuè mò ,w\u01d2 hé q\u012bz\u01d0 zuò zài nàér ,\u0261\u01cenjué h\u011bn sh\u0101n\u0261\u0261\u01cen .w\u01d2men xi\u01cen\u0261 zhe tón\u0261yàn\u0261 de d\u014dn\u0261xi ,què d\u014du \u0101njìn\u0261 de zuò zhe ànzìs\u012bc\u01d4n .zhè shì w\u01d2men xi\u01ceo érzi niàn \u0261\u0101ozh\u014dn\u0261 de zuìhòu yì ch\u01cen\u0261 y\u012bnyuèhuì ……w\u01d2men bú jìn sh\u0101n\u0261\u0261\u01cen ,zh\u0113n nány\u01d0zhìxìn ,zhè y\u011b shì w\u01d2men zuìhòu yí cì c\u0101n y\u01d4 háizi zài xuéxiào de huìbào bi\u01ceoy\u01cen le .<\/div>\n
\u5f53\u65f6\u6b63\u503c\u4e94\u6708\u672b\uff0c\u6211\u548c\u59bb\u5b50\u5750\u5728\u90a3\u513f\uff0c\u611f\u89c9\u5f88\u4f24\u611f\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u60f3\u7740\u540c\u6837\u7684\u4e1c\u897f\uff0c\u5374\u90fd\u5b89\u9759\u5730\u5750\u7740\u6697\u81ea\u601d\u5fd6\u3002\u8fd9\u662f\u6211\u4eec\u5c0f\u513f\u5b50\u5ff5\u9ad8\u4e2d\u7684\u6700\u540e\u4e00\u573a\u97f3\u4e50\u4f1a……\u6211\u4eec\u4e0d\u7981\u611f\u4f24\uff0c\u771f\u96be\u4ee5\u7f6e\u4fe1\uff0c\u8fd9\u4e5f\u662f\u6211\u4eec\u6700\u540e\u4e00\u6b21\u53c2\u4e0e\u5b69\u5b50\u5728\u5b66\u6821\u7684\u6c47\u62a5\u8868\u6f14\u4e86\u3002<\/div>\n<\/p>\n

Where had the time gone? Just yesterday, he’d been sitting next to us, watching first his sister, then his older brother perform in some music or sporting event. Now we were watching our youngest, a senior in high school, nearing graduation. <\/div>\n
shíji\u0101n d\u014du li\u016b dào n\u01ceér qù le ?jiù zài zuóti\u0101n ,t\u0101 yìzhí \u0101i zhe w\u01d2men zuò ,xi\u0101n shì kàn t\u0101 ji\u011bjie ,ér hòu shì kàn t\u0101 \u0261\u0113\u0261\u0113 c\u0101nji\u0101 y\u012bnyuè y\u01cench\u016b huò shì yùndòn\u0261 sàishì .xiànzài ,w\u01d2men kàn zhe zuì xi\u01ceo de háizi ,y\u01d0j\u012bn\u0261 zài niàn \u0261\u0101os\u0101n ,línjìn bìyè le .<\/div>\n
\u65f6\u95f4\u90fd\u6e9c\u5230\u54ea\u513f\u53bb\u4e86\uff1f\u5c31\u5728\u6628\u5929\uff0c\u4ed6\u4e00\u76f4\u6328\u7740\u6211\u4eec\u5750\uff0c\u5148\u662f\u770b\u4ed6\u59d0\u59d0\uff0c\u800c\u540e\u662f\u770b\u4ed6\u54e5\u54e5\u53c2\u52a0\u97f3\u4e50\u6f14\u51fa\u6216\u662f\u8fd0\u52a8\u8d5b\u4e8b\u3002\u73b0\u5728\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u770b\u7740\u6700\u5c0f\u7684\u5b69\u5b50\uff0c\u5df2\u7ecf\u5728\u5ff5\u9ad8\u4e09\uff0c\u4e34\u8fd1\u6bd5\u4e1a\u4e86\u3002<\/div>\n<\/p>\n

 High School has a wonderful ritual each year: to conclude the annual spring concert by honoring the graduating seniors, calling them each to the stage with a few words about their experience and where they are each heading off to next. College! My wife and I sat there quietly; proud, beaming, but misty-eyed.<\/div>\n
Mamaroneck \u0261\u0101ozh\u014dn\u0261 m\u011bi nián d\u014du huì y\u01d2u zhè me \u0261è jíh\u01ceo de yíshì \u0261uànlì :zài niándù ch\u016bnjì y\u012bnyuèhuì de zuìhòu xiàn\u0261 \u0261\u0101os\u0101n bìysh\u0113n\u0261 zhìjìn\u0261 ,ràn\u0261 t\u0101men zhúy\u012b shàn\u0261tái ji\u01cend\u0101n ji\u01cen\u0261ji\u01cen\u0261 t\u01d0huì hé wèilái mùbi\u0101o .dàxué !w\u01d2 hé q\u012bz\u01d0 jìn\u0261jìn\u0261 de zuò zài nàér ,\u0261\u01cendào zìháo \u3001x\u012bnx\u01d0 ,què lèiy\u01cenmén\u0261lón\u0261 .<\/div>\n
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We were sad. <\/div>\n
w\u01d2 mén \u0261\u01cendào b\u0113ish\u0101n\u0261 .<\/div>\n
\u6211\u4eec\u611f\u5230\u60b2\u4f24\u3002<\/div>\n<\/p>\n

As we walked out of the 3)auditorium looking for our son, we saw him standing with his closest friends, arm in arm, posing for the parent photos. He came over to us; we hugged as we always do after a concert, telling him how proud we were, how awesome he was. But we noticed that he was having a bit of a tough time. He had tears in his eyes. <\/div>\n
d\u0101n\u0261 w\u01d2men z\u01d2u ch\u016b l\u01d0tán\u0261 xúnzh\u01ceo w\u01d2men de érzi shí ,w\u01d2men kànjiàn t\u0101 hé t\u0101 de mìy\u01d2u w\u01cen zhe sh\u01d2u zhàn zài yìq\u01d0 ,zhèn\u0261érb\u0101j\u012bn\u0261 de zài hézhào .t\u0101 xiàn\u0261 w\u01d2men z\u01d2u lái .w\u01d2men yìrúw\u01cen\u0261chán\u0261 de zài y\u012bnyuèhuì jiéshù hòu ,xí\u0261uànxìn\u0261 de y\u014dn\u0261bào le yí xià ,ránhòu w\u01d2men \u0261àosù t\u0101 ,w\u01d2men \u0261\u01cendào du\u014dme zìháo ,t\u0101 shì du\u014dme de bàn\u0261 .dàn w\u01d2men zhùyì dào ,t\u0101 d\u0101n\u0261shí \u0261\u01cendào y\u01d2u di\u01cen nánshòu ,y\u01cenl\u01d0 hán zhe lèishu\u01d0 .<\/div>\n
\u5f53\u6211\u4eec\u8d70\u51fa\u793c\u5802\u5bfb\u627e\u6211\u4eec\u7684\u513f\u5b50\u65f6\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u770b\u89c1\u4ed6\u548c\u4ed6\u7684\u5bc6\u53cb\u624b\u633d\u7740\u624b\u7ad9\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\uff0c\u6b63\u513f\u516b\u7ecf\u5730\u5728\u5408\u7167\u3002\u4ed6\u5411\u6211\u4eec\u8d70\u6765\u3002\u6211\u4eec\u4e00\u5982\u5f80\u5e38\u5730\u5728\u97f3\u4e50\u4f1a\u7ed3\u675f\u540e\uff0c\u4e60\u60ef\u6027\u5730\u62e5\u62b1\u4e86\u4e00\u4e0b\uff0c\u7136\u540e\u544a\u8bc9\u4ed6\uff0c\u6211\u4eec\u611f\u5230\u591a\u4e48\u81ea\u8c6a\uff0c\u4ed6\u662f\u591a\u4e48\u7684\u68d2\u3002\u4f46\u6211\u4eec\u6ce8\u610f\u5230\uff0c\u4ed6\u5f53\u65f6\u611f\u5230\u6709\u70b9\u96be\u53d7\uff0c\u773c\u91cc\u542b\u7740\u6cea\u6c34\u3002<\/div>\n<\/p>\n

We asked if he was OK. He looked at us, holding back tears, and said, “I just can’t believe it’s over. It’s really sad.” <\/div>\n
w\u01d2men wèn t\u0101 shìf\u01d2u hái h\u01ceo .t\u0101 yìzhì zhù lèishu\u01d0 kàn zhe w\u01d2men ,shu\u014d dào :"w\u01d2 zh\u01d0shì wúf\u01ce xi\u0101n\u0261xìn \u0261\u0101ozh\u014dn\u0261 sh\u0113n\u0261huó jiù zhèyàn\u0261  jiéshù le .zh\u0113n ràn\u0261 rén nán\u0261uò ."<\/div>\n
\u6211\u4eec\u95ee\u4ed6\u662f\u5426\u8fd8\u597d\u3002\u4ed6\u6291\u5236\u4f4f\u6cea\u6c34\u770b\u7740\u6211\u4eec\uff0c\u8bf4\u9053\uff1a“\u6211\u53ea\u662f\u65e0\u6cd5\u76f8\u4fe1\u9ad8\u4e2d\u751f\u6d3b\u5c31\u8fd9\u4e48\u7ed3\u675f\u4e86\u3002\u771f\u8ba9\u4eba\u96be\u8fc7\u3002”<\/div><\/p>\n