{"id":5079,"date":"2019-10-17T05:08:02","date_gmt":"2019-10-17T05:08:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/business-chinese\/dialogue-try-to-comfort-a-complaining-friend\/"},"modified":"2019-10-17T05:08:02","modified_gmt":"2019-10-17T05:08:02","slug":"dialogue-try-to-comfort-a-complaining-friend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/de\/dialogue-try-to-comfort-a-complaining-friend\/","title":{"rendered":"Dialogue – Try to comfort a complaining friend!"},"content":{"rendered":"
d\u0101ng péng y\u01d2u bào yuàn shí, qù \u0101n wèi t\u0101!
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Try to comfort a complaining friend! <\/p>\n
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People complain or grumble sometimes about trifles or bad luck that happen to them, like being stuck in a traffic jam or being turned down for a job. One of the reasons why people complain a lot is that it makes them feel better. A good friend should be a good listener, too. Allow your friend to talk about his grievances and express his feelings. Listen patiently and, when necessary, offer suggestions of what you could do to help.
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lì li: mài kè, n\u01d0 j\u012bn ti\u0101n li\u01cen sè bù tài h\u01ceo, bù sh\u016b fú ma?
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Lili: You don’t look so good today, Mike, why?<\/p>\n

mài kè: ji\u01cen zhí z\u0101o tòu le! zuó w\u01cen lín j\u016b ji\u0101 bàn w\u01cen huì, ch\u01ceo de w\u01d2 méi f\u01cer shuì jiào.
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Mike: I’m in a terrible state! My next-door neighbor had a party last night. I couldn’t get to sleep with so much noise going on.<\/p>\n

lì li: yuán lái shì zhè yàng. huàn le w\u01d2 y\u011b huì xi\u016b xi bù h\u01ceo de.
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Lili: I see. I wouldn’t be able to sleep well in that situation, either.<\/p>\n

mài kè: hái y\u01d2u gèng z\u0101o de, z\u01ceo shàng g\u0101ng y\u012b ch\u016b mén, zì xíng ch\u0113 t\u0101i bào le, w\u01d2 yòu jí jí máng máng p\u01ceo qù xi\u016b ch\u0113.
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Mike: What is more, my bicycle tire punctured in the morning as soon as I mounted, and I had to have it repaired on my way to work.<\/p>\n

lì li: hái h\u01ceo, n\u01d0 d\u014du méi y\u01d2u chí dào. w\u01d2 zuò g\u014dng ji\u0101o ch\u0113 d\u01d4 zài lù shàng le, chí dào le w\u01d4 f\u0113n zh\u014dng.
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Lili: Fortunately, you were not late. I took the bus and got stuck in traffic, and I was five minutes late.<\/p>\n

mài kè: kàn lái n\u01d0 j\u012bn ti\u0101n y\u011b bù shùn, zh\u0113n wèi n\u01d0 nán guò.
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Mike: Seems you are not having a lucky day, either. Sorry to hear that.<\/p>\n

lì li: b\u01d0 c\u01d0 b\u01d0 c\u01d0. zuò xià xi\u0113 hu\u01d0r, h\u0113 b\u0113i k\u0101 f\u0113i ba.
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Lili: Same here. Sit down and take a rest. Have a cup of coffee.<\/p>\n

mài kè: h\u01ceo de. shì shí shàng, w\u01d2 lián z\u01ceo fàn d\u014du hái méi gù de shàng ch\u012b ne.
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Mike: Ok. Actually I have been too busy to have breakfast yet.<\/p>\n

lì li: nà n\u01d0 zuì h\u01ceo hái shì xi\u0101n qù ch\u012b di\u01cenr d\u014dng xi ba.
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Lili: Then, you’d better go and get something to eat first.<\/p>\n

mài kè: bù xíng a, w\u01d2 sh\u01d2u tóu shàng y\u01d2u y\u012b du\u012b shìr, l\u01ceo b\u01cen zài bù tíng de cu\u012b w\u01d2.
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Mike: No way. I have a lot of work on hand. The boss keeps pressing me to finish it.<\/p>\n

lì li: bié zh\u0101o jí, yáo bù yào w\u01d2 b\u0101ng n\u01d0 zuò xi\u0113 shén me?
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Lili: Don’t worry. Let’s see if I can do anything to help you.<\/p>\n

mài kè: w\u01d2 xi\u01ceng w\u01d2 k\u011b y\u01d0 g\u01ceo dìng, zh\u01d0 shì x\u012bn l\u01d0 y\u01d2u di\u01cenr fán.
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Mike: I think I can get it all done; I just feel a little bit upset.<\/p>\n

lì li: xià b\u0101n hòu z\u01ceo di\u01cenr huí ji\u0101 xi\u016b xi. ò, k\u0101 f\u0113i zh\u01d4 h\u01ceo le.
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Lili: Go home and go to bed early after work. Now, at least, the coffee is ready.<\/p>\n

mài kè: wèi dào h\u01ceo jí le, xiè xie n\u01d0 de gu\u0101n x\u012bn!
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Mike: It is nice and tastes delicious. Thanks for your concern!<\/p>\n

New Words
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\u62b1\u6028 bào yuàn: complain; complaint 
\u53d1\u7262\u9a9a f\u0101 láo sao: complain; grumble 
\u7410\u4e8b su\u01d2 shì: trifles, trifling things 
\u60b2\u4f24 b\u0113i sh\u0101ng: grief 
\u611f\u60c5 g\u01cen qíng: feeling 
\u503e\u542c q\u012bng t\u012bng: listen 
\u8010\u5fc3\u5730 nài x\u012bn de: patiently 
\u8138\u8272 li\u01cen sè: color of the face; look 
\u4e0d\u8212\u670d bù sh\u016b fu: don’t feel good; uncomfortable 
\u7cdf\u7cd5 z\u0101o g\u0101o: what bad luck; too bad; in a terrible mess 
\u90bb\u5c45 lín j\u016b: next door; neighbor; neighborhood 
\u5435\u95f9\u58f0 ch\u01ceo nào sh\u0113ng: noise 
\u7761\u89c9 shuì jiào: sleep; go to bed 
\u81ea\u884c\u8f66 zì xíng ch\u0113: bicycle 
\u8f66\u80ce ch\u0113 t\u0101i: [bicycle] tire 
\u6025\u6025\u5fd9\u5fd9 jí jí máng máng: in a hurry; in haste 
\u4fee\u7406 xi\u016b l\u01d0: repair; have something repaired 
\u8fdf\u5230 chi dao: be late 
\u5835\u8f66 d\u01d4 ch\u0113: traffic jam 
\u4e0d\u987a\u5fc3 bú shùn x\u012bn: unhappy; in a bad luck 
\u5f7c\u6b64\u5f7c\u6b64 b\u01d0 c\u01d0 b\u01d0 c\u01d0: same here; be on the same plane 
\u5496\u5561 k\u0101 f\u0113i: coffee 
\u987e\u4e0d\u4e0a gù bù shàng: be too busy to… 
\u624b\u5934\u513f sh\u01d2u tóur: on hand; at hand 
\u8001\u677f l\u01ceo b\u01cen: boss 
\u50ac cu\u012b: force; push; press 
\u641e\u5b9a g\u01ceo dìng: get something done; have something done 
\u70e6 fán: vexed; be upset; be annoyed 
\u5473\u9053 wèi dào: taste 
\u5173\u5fc3 gu\u0101n x\u012bn: concern; be concerned with

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