{"id":8561,"date":"2019-10-30T13:13:21","date_gmt":"2019-10-30T13:13:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/chinese-reading\/chinese-love-and-chinese-wedding-zhong-guo-shi-hun-li\/"},"modified":"2019-10-30T13:13:21","modified_gmt":"2019-10-30T13:13:21","slug":"chinese-love-and-chinese-wedding-zhong-guo-shi-hun-li","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/de\/chinese-love-and-chinese-wedding-zhong-guo-shi-hun-li\/","title":{"rendered":"Chinese love and Chinese wedding \u4e2d\u56fd\u5f0f\u5a5a\u793c"},"content":{"rendered":"
It’s called "Shanghai’s 3rd Annual Love and Marriage Expo." But the atmosphere at this massive gathering for single Chinese men and women was decidedly unromantic.
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More than 18,000 people preregistered for the weekend event, located rather inco<\/em>ngruously in a sprawling shopping complex specializing in home and office furniture.
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The crowds were met by billboards posting lists of thousands of single men and women — one list in pink and the other in blue. Within minutes of the doors opening on a rainy Saturday morning, visitors huddled to study the lists and take in vital intel a<\/em>bout potential suitors — age, height, education, annual income and their registered hometown, also known as hukou.
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Some people took notes, while others snapped photos of single entries with their cellphones.
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In one hall more than a hundred men and women in their twenties and thirties sat facing each other at tables decorated with red and yellow tablecloths, the soothing to<\/em>nes of a Norah Jo<\/em>nes love song spilling out from loudspeakers.
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"Welcome everybody to our 8-minute speed-dating event," announced the master of ceremo<\/em>nies eventually. When the eight minutes was up, each dater was instructed to move on. "Male guests please move two seats to your left," boomed the announcer.
“\u6b22\u8fce\u5927\u5bb6\u53c2\u52a0\u6211\u4eec8\u5206\u949f\u5feb\u901f\u7ea6\u4f1a\u73af\u8282\uff0c”\u5927\u4f1a\u4e3b\u6301\u4eba\u7ec8\u4e8e\u5ba3\u5e03\u30028\u5206\u949f\u4e00\u7ed3\u675f\uff0c\u6bcf\u4e2a\u7ea6\u4f1a\u8005\u90fd\u5fc5\u987b\u632a\u52a8\u4f4d\u7f6e\u3002“\u7537\u5609\u5bbe\u8bf7\u5411\u4f60\u7684\u5de6\u624b\u8fb9\u632a\u52a8\u4e24\u4e2a\u4f4d\u7f6e\uff0c”\u4e3b\u6301\u4eba\u5927\u58f0\u8bf4\u3002<\/p>\n

For some participants, this was the first time they had ever been on a date. "It’s useful…it’s just like research," said Yixin Bai, a 20-year-old man home for the summer holidays from a university in Canada.
\u5bf9\u4e8e\u67d0\u4e9b\u53c2\u4e0e\u8005\u6765\u8bf4\uff0c\u8fd9\u662f\u4ed6\u4eec\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b21\u7ea6\u4f1a\u3002 “\u8fd9\u5f88\u6709\u7528……\u5c31\u597d\u50cf\u505a\u7814\u7a76\u4e00\u6837\uff0c”20\u5c81\u7684\u767d\u6bc5\u65b0\uff08\u97f3\u8bd1\uff09\u8bf4\uff0c\u4ed6\u5728\u52a0\u62ff\u5927\u8bfb\u5927\u5b66\uff0c\u73b0\u5728\u56de\u5bb6\u8fc7\u6691\u5047\u3002<\/p>\n

Bai said he has never had a girlfriend before. This is not uncommon amo<\/em>ngst young Chinese, co<\/em>nsidering many teens are discouraged from having any romantic relatio<\/em>nships in high school and told to focus on school work instead. He came to the expo to learn what women want from men.
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"After asking them, I now know something: Women don’t like men to rely on their parents," he said.
“\u95ee\u8fc7\u5979\u4eec\u4e4b\u540e\uff0c\u73b0\u5728\u6211\u660e\u767d\u4e86\u4e00\u4e9b\uff1a\u5973\u4eba\u4e0d\u559c\u6b22\u7537\u4eba\u4f9d\u8d56\u7236\u6bcd\uff0c”\u4ed6\u8bf4\u3002<\/p>\n

Bai was participating in a speed-dating event organized by Zhenai Inc., one of China’s largest Internet match-making websites. The company says it has more than 58 million registered users and is growing by one million users a month.
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Zhenai’s founder and CEO is a Columbia University-educated former investment banker named Song Li. He says the one-child policy implemented by the Chinese government in 1979 has resulted in young adults having poor social skills — crucial in the dating game.
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"A lot of kids who were born after 1980, they don’t have siblings. So they grow up in an enviro<\/em>nment wher you don’t have the experience to meet with people of the opposite sex," Li opined.
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Many participants said they came to the co<\/em>nvention because they needed help. They said they found it difficult to meet potential romantic partners outside their immediate circle of friends and family.
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And many Chinese approaching their late twenties, especially women, are under immense pressure to get married. "My mother asks, ‘Why are you still single? Are you a freak?’" said Elsie, a 26-year-old woman who was taking part in a speed-dating session.
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The woman next to her, who asked to be called May and is also 26, said her father asked the same question.
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"Everyone has the same story," said May laughing. "I feel free because I’m single… but I know this is the time I need to date somebody. I need to get married before thirty." Both women said they did not want to become shengnu, or the "leftover women."
“\u6bcf\u4e2a\u4eba\u90fd\u6709\u76f8\u540c\u7684\u6545\u4e8b\uff0c”May\u7b11\u7740\u8bf4\u3002“\u6211\u611f\u89c9\u5f88\u81ea\u7531\uff0c\u56e0\u4e3a\u6211\u662f\u5355\u8eab……\u4f46\u6211\u77e5\u9053\u6211\u5f97\u5f00\u59cb\u7ea6\u4f1a\u4e86\u3002\u6211\u9700\u8981\u572830\u5c81\u4e4b\u524d\u7ed3\u5a5a\u3002” \u4e24\u4e2a\u5973\u5b69\u90fd\u8bf4\u5979\u4eec\u4e0d\u60f3\u6210\u4e3a\u5269\u5973\u3002<\/p>\n

"It is one of the most talked a<\/em>bout issues in Chinese society because a lot of educated women are left behind because they set a very high standard for their future husbands … and they are less willing, unlike their parents’ generation, to compromise," said Zhenai’s Li.
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May, who has a good job in human resources at an internatio<\/em>nal firm and speaks fluent English, said this was her first time at a match-making event. She said she had never had a boyfriend before or been in love.
May\u5728\u4e00\u5bb6\u5916\u4f01\u6709\u4e00\u4efd\u4e0d\u9519\u7684\u4eba\u529b\u8d44\u6e90\u5de5\u4f5c\uff0c\u4f1a\u8bf4\u6d41\u5229\u7684\u82f1\u8bed\u3002\u5979\u8bf4\u8fd9\u662f\u5979\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b21\u6765\u53c2\u52a0\u76f8\u4eb2\uff0c\u4e4b\u524d\u4ece\u6ca1\u6709\u8fc7\u7537\u670b\u53cb\uff0c\u4e5f\u6ca1\u6709\u604b\u7231\u8fc7\u3002<\/p>\n

"I have no time to get to know other males at a similar age … that’s why I can’t find my Mister Right," she said. "I just wish that I have some luck today."
“\u6211\u6ca1\u65f6\u95f4\u8ba4\u8bc6\u548c\u6211\u5e74\u9f84\u5dee\u4e0d\u591a\u7684\u7537\u4eba……\u8fd9\u5c31\u662f\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u6211\u627e\u4e0d\u5230\u6211\u7684\u771f\u547d\u5929\u5b50\uff0c”\u5979\u8bf4\u3002“\u6211\u53ea\u5e0c\u671b\u6211\u4eca\u5929\u80fd\u6709\u70b9\u8fd0\u6c14\u3002”<\/p>\n

Despite being rejected by two men, May was in good spirits. She said that the two men needed a women who had a registered hukou in Shanghai.
\u867d\u7136\u5df2\u7ecf\u88ab\u4e24\u540d\u7537\u58eb\u62d2\u7edd\uff0cMay\u7684\u60c5\u7eea\u8fd8\u4e0d\u9519\u3002\u5979\u8bf4\u90a3\u4e24\u4e2a\u4eba\u60f3\u627e\u4e00\u4e2a\u6709\u4e0a\u6d77\u6237\u53e3\u7684\u5973\u4eba\u3002<\/p>\n

For a gathering of thousands of single men and women, it was surprising to note that there was very little flirting going on.
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People wandered the corridors picking up brochures from match-making companies and stopped in to listen to self-help lectures from "life coaches," who were schooling women in how to "brand" themselves.
\u4eba\u4eec\u5728\u8d70\u9053\u4e0a\u5f98\u5f8a\uff0c\u6536\u96c6\u76f8\u4eb2\u516c\u53f8\u6d3e\u53d1\u7684\u5c0f\u518c\u5b50\uff0c\u4e5f\u4f1a\u505c\u4e0b\u6765\u542c\u542c“\u4eba\u751f\u5bfc\u5e08”\u7684\u81ea\u52a9\u6f14\u8bb2\uff0c\u6559\u5973\u6027\u5982\u4f55\u81ea\u6211“\u63a8\u9500”\u3002<\/p>\n

At times, the Love and Marriage Expo felt like a job fair. o<\/em>nline match-making entrepreneur Li said that was an accurate comparison. Finding a spouse is "almost like finding a job," he said.
\u6709\u65f6\u5019\uff0c\u8fd9\u573a\u5a5a\u604b\u535a\u89c8\u611f\u89c9\u5c31\u50cf\u662f\u4e00\u573a\u62db\u8058\u4f1a\u3002\u5a5a\u604b\u7f51\u7ad9\u521b\u529e\u8005\u674e\u677e\u8bf4\u8fd9\u4e2a\u6bd4\u55bb\u5f88\u786e\u5207\u3002\u627e\u5bf9\u8c61“\u5c31\u597d\u50cf\u627e\u5de5\u4f5c\uff0c”\u4ed6\u8bf4\u3002<\/p>\n

"People tend to be very pragmatic," he explained. "[Being single] is a problem that you have an obligation to fix. And your parents feel that it is their obligation to see to it — to get this problem fixed."
“\u4eba\u4eec\u8d8a\u6765\u8d8a\u73b0\u5b9e\uff0c”\u4ed6\u89e3\u91ca\u8bf4\u3002“\uff08\u5355\u8eab\uff09\u8fd9\u4e2a\u95ee\u9898\u4f60\u6709\u4e49\u52a1\u8981\u53bb\u89e3\u51b3\u3002\u800c\u4e14\u4f60\u7684\u7236\u6bcd\u4f1a\u89c9\u5f97\u4ed6\u4eec\u6709\u4e49\u52a1\u53bb\u7559\u610f\u3001\u53bb\u89e3\u51b3\u8fd9\u4e2a\u95ee\u9898\u3002”<\/p>\n

Another startling revelation was that there were nearly as many parents at the Love and Marriage Expo as there were single men and women.<\/p>\n

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Some parents stood at the bustling entrance to the co<\/em>nvention holding up printed posters advertising the details of their single children. Others walked alo<\/em>ngside their adult sons and daughters, inspecting the booths of different match-making agencies.
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One match-maker told CNN she had to prohibit parents accompanying their children to the speed-dating tables.
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"I respect my parents’ opinion," said May. "If my parents say this guy is no good, then I won’t date [him]. But if my parents say this one is good, that they are happy with this boy, then I will try."
“\u6211\u5c0a\u91cd\u6211\u7236\u6bcd\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5\uff0c”May\u8bf4\u3002“\u5982\u679c\u6211\u7684\u7236\u6bcd\u8bf4\u8fd9\u4e2a\u7537\u5b69\u4e0d\u597d\uff0c\u6211\u5c31\u4e0d\u4f1a\u8ddf\uff08\u4ed6\uff09\u7ea6\u4f1a\u3002\u4f46\u662f\u5982\u679c\u6211\u7684\u7236\u6bcd\u8bf4\u8fd9\u4e2a\u4eba\u4e0d\u9519\uff0c\u4ed6\u4eec\u5bf9\u8fd9\u4e2a\u7537\u5b69\u5f88\u6ee1\u610f\uff0c\u90a3\u6211\u5c31\u4f1a\u8bd5\u8bd5\u3002”<\/p>\n

In some cases, mothers and fathers clearly played a role as social icebreakers for their children.
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At one point, while wandering the corridors of the convention, May got a phone call. It was her father who was also there. May found him standing next to another father he had just met.
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The man happened to have a single son who worked in a bank and did not attend the convention. Fortunately he carried a photo — and a passport — of his son, which he showed to May. "His picture looks good. A little bit handsome," May responded.
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Then she stood somewhat awkwardly as the man’s father took a photo of her in the crowded corridor. May’s father looked over his counterpart’s shoulder, murmuring advice as the digital image was taken.
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May seemed pleased and grateful to the two dads. "They are both trying to help their child find their Mr. Right and Miss Right."
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