{"id":13363,"date":"2019-11-18T18:51:26","date_gmt":"2019-11-18T18:51:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/chinese-culture\/what-exactly-are-hong-yan-zhi-ji-red-soulmate-and-lan-yan-zhi-ji-blue-soulmate\/"},"modified":"2019-11-18T18:51:26","modified_gmt":"2019-11-18T18:51:26","slug":"what-exactly-are-hong-yan-zhi-ji-red-soulmate-and-lan-yan-zhi-ji-blue-soulmate","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/fr\/what-exactly-are-hong-yan-zhi-ji-red-soulmate-and-lan-yan-zhi-ji-blue-soulmate\/","title":{"rendered":"What exactly are \u201c\u7ea2\u989c\u77e5\u5df1 [Red Soulmate]\u201d and \u201c\u84dd\u989c\u77e5\u5df1 [Blue Soulmate]\u201c?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>In Chinese, \u7ea2\u989c\u77e5\u5df1 h&oacute;ngy&aacute;nzh\u012bj\u01d0 (red soulmate) and \u84dd\u989c\u77e5\u5df1 l&aacute;ny&aacute;nzh\u012bj\u01d0 (blue soulmate) are defined as the &ldquo;fourth emotion&rdquo; of human being. \u7ea2\u989c\u77e5\u5df1 h&oacute;ngy&aacute;nzh\u012bj\u01d0&nbsp; refers to the female friend of a man that is also a soulmate of the man, but is not his lover. \u84dd\u989c\u77e5\u5df1 l&aacute;ny&aacute;nzh\u012bj\u01d0 is a male friend of a woman instead. The other three emotions are \u4eb2\u60c5 q\u012bnq&iacute;ng (blood), \u53cb\u60c5 y\u01d2uq&iacute;ng (friendship) and \u7231\u60c5 &agrave;iq&iacute;ng (romantic love). People have different opinions towards the &ldquo;fourth emotion&rdquo; since it is easily to go beyond the border and become romantic love in an affair.<\/p>\n<p>  Here is a reader&rsquo;s translation of \u84dd\u989c\u77e5\u5df1 that I think is very helpful: &ldquo;Co<em><\/em>nfidential Close Male Friend &ndash; This is the type of male friend that you may have that you could tell anything to, and if he started to fall in love with you, you could say &rdquo; Why do you want to wreck our perfect friendship &rdquo; and he would understand. &rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>  Strictly speaking, \u7ea2(\u84dd)\u989c\u77e5\u5df1 h&oacute;ng(l&aacute;n)y&aacute;nzh\u012bj\u01d0&nbsp; is a relatio<em><\/em>nship that is \u6bd4\u670b\u53cb\u591a\u4e00\u70b9\uff0c\u6bd4\u60c5\u4eba\u5c11\u4e00\u70b9 b\u01d0 p&eacute;ngyou du\u014d y\u012bdi\u01cen\uff0c b\u01d0 q&iacute;ngr&eacute;n sh\u01ceo y\u012bdi\u01cen (more than friend, less than lover). In Chinese history, the word of \u7ea2\u989c\u77e5\u5df1 h&oacute;ngy&aacute;nzh\u012bj\u01d0 has been around for centuries. However, \u84dd\u989c\u77e5\u5df1 l&aacute;ny&aacute;nzh\u012bj\u01d0 o<em><\/em>nly came around a couple of years ago.<\/p>\n<p>  No matter when they appeared, both words are frequently used in today&rsquo;s China. You might have read a<em><\/em>bout them, or you&rsquo;ll meet them later. I hope this beautiful song could explain the subtle feelings of \u84dd\u989c\u77e5\u5df1 l&aacute;ny&aacute;nzh\u012bj\u01d0 to you in a walk of music.<\/p>\n<p>  The first video is the version with both male and female voice, my favorite too. The second video is a movie cut from &lt;&lt;\u65b0\u4e0a\u6d77\u6ee9 x\u012bn sh&agrave;ng h\u01ceit\u0101n (Shanghai Grand)&gt;&gt; that explains the song in a story. Hope you love it&hellip;<\/p>\n<p>  \u84dd\u989c\u77e5\u5df1<br \/>  Blue Soulmate<br \/>  \u8bcd\uff1a\u9648\u5029\u5029 \u66f2\uff1a\u90ed\u4eae<\/p>\n<p>  lyrics: Chen Qianqian Music: Guo Liang<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u65f6\u95f4\u8ba9\u60c5\u611f \u4e00\u70b9\u70b9\u6c89\u6dc0<\/p>\n<p>  Time lets emotions to accumulate, bit by bit,<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u90a3\u4e9b\u672a\u66fe\u7559\u610f\u7684\u6539\u53d8<\/p>\n<p>  those unnoticed changes<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u60c5\u4eba\u77e5\u5df1 \u8fd9\u6761\u754c\u9650<\/p>\n<p>  lover, or soulmate<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u5230\u5e95\u5e94\u8be5\u5212\u5728\u54ea\u91cc<\/p>\n<p>  wher should we draw the line?<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u5982\u679c\u8fd9\u4e16\u95f4 \u771f\u7684\u8fd8\u6709<\/p>\n<p>  Whether in this world<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u8fd9\u6837\u7684\u7b2c\u56db\u79cd\u60c5\u611f<\/p>\n<p>  the fourth emotion like this exists?<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u4e00\u5c01\u672a\u5f00\u542f\u7684\u4fe1<\/p>\n<p>  A letter that has not been opened<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u7559\u4e0b\u591a\u5c11\u60ac\u5ff5<\/p>\n<p>  leaves so much unknown<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u84dd\u989c\u77e5\u5df1 \u5fc3\u6709\u7075\u7280<\/p>\n<p>  Blue soulmate, the spirit in mind<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u4f60\u89e3\u6211\u7684\u5fc3\u4e8b\u6211\u61c2\u4f60\u7684\u6697\u8bed<\/p>\n<p>  you understand my thoughts, I understand your hints<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u84dd\u989c\u77e5\u5df1 \u6211\u4eec\u7684\u79d8\u5bc6<\/p>\n<p>  Blue soulmate, our secret<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u7279\u522b\u7684\u4f60 \u603b\u5728\u5fc3\u91cc<\/p>\n<p>  The special you, are always in my mind<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  (\u5c31\u7b97\u662f\u6ca1\u6709\u660e\u5929 \u6ca1\u6709\u7ed3\u679c)\u4e0d\u4f1a\u5fd8\u8bb0<\/p>\n<p>  (Even if there&rsquo;s no tomorrow, no result) won&rsquo;t forget<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  (\u90fd\u65e0\u6cd5\u653e\u5f03)\u8c01\u4e5f\u65e0\u6cd5\u4ee3\u66ff<\/p>\n<p>  (can&rsquo;t give up) can&rsquo;t be replaced<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u76f8\u89c1\u4e0d\u76f8\u89c1 \u5df2\u6162\u6162\u4e60\u60ef<\/p>\n<p>  See you or not, slowly getting used to .<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u90a3\u4e9b\u672a\u66fe\u8bf4\u51fa\u7684\u60f3\u5ff5<\/p>\n<p>  Those missing feelings that had never been told<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u591a\u4e48\u5e0c\u671b \u8fd9\u79cd\u611f\u89c9<\/p>\n<p>  How much I wish, those feelings<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u95ed\u4e0a\u53cc\u773c \u77ac\u95f4\u51dd\u7ed3<\/p>\n<p>  could be frozen the instant I closed my eyes<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u51b7\u85cf\u4fdd\u9c9c \u6ca1\u6709\u671f\u9650<\/p>\n<p>  Have them freshly frozen, never expire<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u53ea\u613f\u5230\u4e0b\u4e00\u4e2a\u4e16\u7eaa<\/p>\n<p>  Wish o<em><\/em>nly when the next century comes<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u518d\u6eb6\u89e3<\/p>\n<p>  let them thaw<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u8981\u600e\u4e48\u9762\u5bf9\u8fd9\u4e00\u5929<\/p>\n<p>  How can we face that day<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u4f60\u95ee\u7684\u76f4\u63a5<\/p>\n<p>  you ask straight<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u84dd\u989c\u77e5\u5df1 \u547d\u4e2d\u6ce8\u5b9a<\/p>\n<p>  Blue soulmate, it&rsquo;s destiny<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u66a7\u6627\u8fd8\u662f\u6e05\u6670 \u96be\u89e3\u5b83\u7684\u7384\u673a<\/p>\n<p>  Vague or clear, can&rsquo;t tell<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u84dd\u989c\u77e5\u5df1 \u6211\u4eec\u7684\u79d8\u5bc6<\/p>\n<p>  Blue soulmate, our secret<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u6709\u79cd\u611f\u52a8\u8bb0\u5fc6 \u90fd\u662f\u5173\u4e8e\u4f60<\/p>\n<p>  Those sentimental memories, are all a<em><\/em>bout you<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u8fd9\u79cd\u7231\u4e0d\u53ef\u4ee3\u66ff<\/p>\n<p>  The love that can not be replaced<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  [pinyin]<\/p>\n<p>  l&aacute;ny&aacute;nzh\u012bj\u01d0<br \/>  c&iacute;\uff1a ch&eacute;n qi&agrave;n qi&agrave;n q\u016b\uff1a gu\u014d li&agrave;ng<\/p>\n<p>  sh&iacute;ji\u0101n r&agrave;ng q&iacute;ngg\u01cen y\u012bdi\u01cendi\u01cen ch&eacute;ndi&agrave;n<\/p>\n<p>  n&agrave;xi\u0113 w&egrave;ic&eacute;ng li&uacute;y&igrave; de g\u01ceibi&agrave;n<\/p>\n<p>  q&iacute;ngr&eacute;n zh\u012bj\u01d0 zh&egrave; ti&aacute;o ji&egrave;xi&agrave;n<\/p>\n<p>  d&agrave;od\u01d0 y\u012bngg\u0101i hu&agrave; z&agrave;i n\u01cel\u01d0<\/p>\n<p>  r&uacute;gu\u01d2 zh&egrave; sh&igrave;ji\u0101n zh\u0113n de h&aacute;iy\u01d2u<\/p>\n<p>  zh&egrave;y&agrave;ng de d&igrave; s&igrave; zh\u01d2ng q&iacute;ngg\u01cen<\/p>\n<p>  y\u012b f\u0113ng w&egrave;i k\u0101iq\u01d0 de x&igrave;n<\/p>\n<p>  li&uacute;xi&agrave; du\u014dshao xu&aacute;nni&agrave;n<\/p>\n<p>  l&aacute;ny&aacute;nzh\u012bj\u01d0 x\u012bn y\u01d2u l&iacute;ngx\u012b<\/p>\n<p>  n\u01d0 ji\u011b w\u01d2 de x\u012bnsh&igrave;<\/p>\n<p>  w\u01d2 d\u01d2ng n\u01d0 de &agrave;ny\u01d4<\/p>\n<p>  l&aacute;ny&aacute;nzh\u012bj\u01d0 w\u01d2men de m&igrave;m&igrave;<\/p>\n<p>  t&egrave;bi&eacute; de n\u01d0 z\u01d2ng z&agrave;i x\u012bnli( ji&ugrave;su&agrave;n sh&igrave; m&eacute;iy\u01d2u m&iacute;ngti\u0101n m&eacute;iy\u01d2u ji&eacute;gu\u01d2)<\/p>\n<p>  b&ugrave;hu&igrave; w&agrave;ngj&igrave;( d\u014du w&uacute;f\u01ce f&agrave;ngq&igrave;)<\/p>\n<p>  sh&eacute;i y\u011b w&uacute;f\u01ce d&agrave;it&igrave;<\/p>\n<p>  xi\u0101ngji&agrave;n b&ugrave; xi\u0101ngji&agrave;n y\u01d0 m&agrave;nm&agrave;n x&iacute;gu&agrave;n<\/p>\n<p>  n&agrave;xi\u0113 w&egrave;ic&eacute;ng shu\u014dch\u016b de xi\u01cengni&agrave;n<\/p>\n<p>  du\u014dme x\u012bw&agrave;ng zh&egrave;zh\u01d2ng g\u01cenju&eacute;<\/p>\n<p>  b&igrave;shang shu\u0101ngy\u01cen sh&ugrave;nji\u0101n n&iacute;ngji&eacute;<\/p>\n<p>  l\u011bngc&aacute;ng b\u01ceo xi\u0101n m&eacute;iy\u01d2u q\u012bxi&agrave;n<\/p>\n<p>  zh\u01d0 yu&agrave;n d&agrave;o xi&agrave;y\u012bge sh&igrave;j&igrave; z&agrave;i r&oacute;ngji\u011b<\/p>\n<p>  y&agrave;o z\u011bnme mi&agrave;ndu&igrave; zh&egrave; y\u012b ti\u0101n<\/p>\n<p>  n\u01d0 w&egrave;n de zh&iacute;ji\u0113<\/p>\n<p>  l&aacute;ny&aacute;nzh\u012bj\u01d0 m&igrave;ngzh\u014dngzh&ugrave;d&igrave;ng<\/p>\n<p>  &agrave;im&egrave;i h&aacute;ishi q\u012bngx\u012b n&aacute;nji\u011b t\u0101 de xu&aacute;nj\u012b<\/p>\n<p>  l&aacute;ny&aacute;nzh\u012bj\u01d0 w\u01d2men de m&igrave;m&igrave;<\/p>\n<p>  y\u01d2uzh\u01d2ng g\u01cend&ograve;ng j&igrave;y&igrave; d\u014du sh&igrave; gu\u0101ny&uacute; n\u01d0<\/p>\n<p>  zh&egrave;zh\u01d2ng &agrave;i b&ugrave;k\u011b d&agrave;it&igrave;<br type=\"_moz\" \/><\/div>\n<div class=\"chine-tie-zi-nei-rong-zhi-hou\" id=\"chine-163708103\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-1889418300638825\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-1889418300638825\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7273022922\" \ndata-ad-layout-key=\"-gw-3+1f-3d+2z\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In Chinese, \u7ea2\u989c\u77e5\u5df1 h&oacute;ngy&aacute;nzh\u012bj\u01d0 (red soulmate) and \u84dd\u989c\u77e5\u5df1 l&aacute;ny&aacute;nzh\u012bj\u01d0 (blue soulmate) are defined as the &ldquo;fourth emotion&rdquo; of human being.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[9,2865],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13363","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-chinese-culture","category-chinese-song"],"views":1062,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13363","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13363"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13363\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13363"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13363"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13363"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}