{"id":12711,"date":"2019-11-21T22:01:02","date_gmt":"2019-11-21T22:01:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/spoken-chinese\/daily-chinese\/pan-dian-li-hun-lv-shi-ba-qi-yu-lu\/"},"modified":"2019-11-21T22:01:02","modified_gmt":"2019-11-21T22:01:02","slug":"pan-dian-li-hun-lv-shi-ba-qi-yu-lu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/my\/pan-dian-li-hun-lv-shi-ba-qi-yu-lu\/","title":{"rendered":"\u76d8\u70b9\u300a\u79bb\u5a5a\u5f8b\u5e08\u300b\u9738\u6c14\u8bed\u5f55"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><span style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 20px; orphans: auto; text-align: -webkit-left; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; display: inline !im<em><\/em>portant; float: none;&#8221;>\u300a\u79bb\u5a5a\u5f8b\u5e08\u300b\u70ed\u64ad\uff0c\u5927\u5634\u59da\u6668\u548c\u5112\u96c5\u5927\u53d4\u5434\u79c0\u6ce2\u626e\u6f14\u4e86\u4e00\u5bf9\u6b22\u559c\u51a4\u5bb6\uff0c\u5728\u6cd5\u5ead\u4e0a\u5404\u79cd\u5507\u67aa\u820c\u6218\uff0c\u5728\u751f\u6d3b\u4e2d\u4e0d\u65ad\u64e6\u51fa\u706b\u82b1\u3002\u5267\u4e2d\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u6709\u5173\u5a5a\u59fb\u548c\u611f\u60c5\u7684\u7ecf\u5178\u8bed\u5f55\uff0c\u5f15\u4eba\u6df1\u601d\u3002\u4e0b\u9762\u6211\u4eec\u4e00\u8d77\u6765\u770b\u4e00\u4e0b\u5427\u3002<\/span><br style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: font-weight: letter-spacing: line-height: 20px; orphans: auto; text-align: -webkit-left; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: widows: word-spacing: -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\" \/>  <br style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 20px; orphans: auto; text-align: -webkit-left; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\" \/>  <br style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 20px; orphans: auto; text-align: -webkit-left; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\" \/>  <span style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 20px; orphans: auto; text-align: -webkit-left; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; display: inline !im<em><\/em>portant; float: none;&#8221;>\u6cd5\u5f8b\u53ea\u4fdd\u62a4\u8d22\u4ea7\uff0c\u4e0d\u4fdd\u62a4\u611f\u60c5\u3002<\/span><br style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: font-weight: letter-spacing: line-height: 20px; orphans: auto; text-align: -webkit-left; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: widows: word-spacing: -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\" \/>  <span style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 20px; orphans: auto; text-align: -webkit-left; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; display: inline !im<em><\/em>portant; float: none;&#8221;>Laws o<em><\/em>nly protect property, not relationships.<\/span><br style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: font-weight: letter-spacing: line-height: 20px; orphans: auto; text-align: -webkit-left; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: widows: word-spacing: -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\" \/>  <br style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 20px; orphans: auto; text-align: -webkit-left; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\" \/>  <br style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 20px; orphans: auto; text-align: -webkit-left; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\" \/>  <span style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 20px; orphans: auto; text-align: -webkit-left; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; display: inline !im<em><\/em>portant; float: none;&#8221;>\u6709\u65f6\u5019\u4f60\u4e0d\u77e5\u9053\u81ea\u5df1\u5230\u5e95\u505a\u9519\u4e86\u4ec0\u4e48\uff0c\u5374\u8981\u53d7\u5230\u5982\u6b64\u6b8b\u9177\u7684\u60e9\u7f5a\u3002\u4f60\u4e0d\u8be5\u5141\u8bb8\u81ea\u5df1\u957f\u65f6\u95f4\u7684\u9677\u5165\u60b2\u4f24\u3002\u4f60\u8981\u544a\u8bc9\u81ea\u5df1\u4f60\u6ca1\u6709\u9000\u8def\uff0c\u4f60\u5fc5\u987b\u9009\u62e9\u91cd\u65b0\u5f00\u59cb\u3002<\/span><br style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: font-weight: letter-spacing: line-height: 20px; orphans: auto; text-align: -webkit-left; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: widows: word-spacing: -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\" \/>  <span style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 20px; orphans: auto; text-align: -webkit-left; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; display: inline !im<em><\/em>portant; float: none;&#8221;>Maybe sometimes you&#8217;ve been punished cruelly in your married life, but you still don&#8217;t know why. You must choose to start again. Don&#8217;t let yourself become overwhelmed with sadness for too long or tell yourself you have no retreat.<\/p><p>  <\/span>  <\/p><p style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: font-weight: letter-spacing: line-height: 20px; orphans: auto; text-align: start; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: widows: word-spacing: -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\">\u6211\u76f8\u4fe1\u7231\u60c5\uff0c\u4e5f\u76f8\u4fe1\u7231\u60c5\u4f1a\u6b7b\uff0c\u5728\u6211\u770b\u6765\u6ca1\u6709\u4ec0\u4e48\u662f\u901a\u8fc7\u5a5a\u59fb\u624d\u80fd\u5f97\u5230\u7684\uff0c\u4f46\u4e24\u4eba\u4e4b\u95f4\u6700\u73cd\u8d35\u7684\u611f\u60c5\u53ea\u6709\u901a\u8fc7\u5a5a\u59fb\u624d\u53ef\u80fd\u4ea7\u751f\u3002<br \/>  I believe in love and I also believe that love will die. In my eyes, nothing in the world can be achieved o<em><\/em>nly through marriage, but the most precious feelings between two individuals do grow as a result of marriage.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 20px; orphans: auto; text-align: start; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\">  \u4eba\u554a\uff0c\u96be\u53d7\u662f\u56e0\u4e3a\u4e0d\u81ea\u7531\uff0c\u89c9\u5f97\u4e0d\u81ea\u7531\u662f\u56e0\u4e3a\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u6b32\u671b\u81a8\u80c0\u3002<span>&nbsp;<\/span><br \/>  People&rsquo;s unhappiness of feeling restrained in marriage derives from a swelling desire to be free.<\/p>\n<p align=\"left\" style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 20px; orphans: auto; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\">  \u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u79bb\u5a5a\uff0c\u5c31\u662f\u8981\u7ed3\u675f\u4e00\u6bb5\u4e0d\u597d\u7684\u611f\u60c5\uff0c\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u8981\u7ed3\u5a5a\uff0c\u5c31\u662f\u8981\u5f00\u5c55\u4e00\u6bb5\u6709\u5e0c\u671b\u7684\u65b0\u751f\u6d3b\u3002<span>&nbsp;<\/span><br \/>  Divorce is a means of putting an end to an unhappy relationship, while marriage serves the purpose of opening a new chapter in one&rsquo;s life.<\/p>\n<p>  \u8c0e\u8a00\u5c31\u7b97\u662f\u5305\u88c5\u4e00\u767e\u79cd\u5f62\u5f0f\uff0c\u4e5f\u4f9d\u65e7\u662f\u8c0e\u8a00\u3002<br \/>  A lie is a lie, although it can take on all forms.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 20px; orphans: auto; text-align: start; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\">  \u4f60\u522b\u8bf4\u4f60\u53d7\u8fc7\u5a5a\u59fb\u7684\u4f24\u5bb3\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u4f60\u4e0d\u518d\u76f8\u4fe1\u5a5a\u59fb\u4e86\u3002\u4f60\u6253\u5c0f\u8fd8\u6454\u8fc7\u8ddf\u5934\u5462\uff0c\u600e\u4e48\u4e5f\u6ca1\u89c1\u4f60\u4e0d\u6562\u51fa\u95e8\u554a\uff1f<br \/>  I can&#8217;t accept remarks like that: I just do not believe in marriage because I got hurt in my previous one. Would you have just stayed in your house because you felt down when you were a kid?<br \/>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 20px; orphans: auto; text-align: start; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\">\u5e72\u5f8b\u5e08\u8fd9\u884c\uff0c\u770b\u89c1\u522b\u4eba\u7ed3\u5a5a\uff0c\u529d\u522b\u4eba\u5c0f\u5fc3\uff0c\u770b\u5230\u522b\u4eba\u79bb\u5a5a\uff0c\u8981\u5bf9\u522b\u4eba\u8bf4\u58f0\u606d\u559c\u3002<span>&nbsp;<\/span><br \/>  As a lawyer, We should say &ldquo;take care&rdquo; to newly-weds and &ldquo;congratulations&rdquo; to those who have just divorced.<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<br \/>  \u5982\u679c\u8bf4\u5a5a\u59fb\u662f\u5951\u7ea6\uff0c\u592b\u59bb\u95f4\u7684\u627f\u8bfa\u662f\u5408\u540c\uff0c\u90a3\u4e48\u4f60\u8fd9\u79cd\u884c\u4e3a\uff0c\u5c31\u53eb\u505a\u5408\u540c\u6b3a\u8bc8\u3002<span>&nbsp;<\/span><br \/>  If a marriage is an agreement, then the promise between a couple is the contract. In this case, your behavior is nothing but co<em><\/em>ntractual fraud.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 20px; orphans: auto; text-align: start; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\">  \u4f60\u6536\u62fe\u4e00\u4e2a\u7537\u4eba\u4f60\u4e0d\u80fd\u5728\u7ed3\u5a5a\u524d\uff0c\u4f60\u5f97\u7ed3\u5b8c\u5a5a\u6162\u6162\u6536\u62fe\u3002<span>&nbsp;<\/span><br \/>  Never give lessons to a man before marriage. You need to do it gradually afterwards.<br \/>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  \u79bb\u5f00\u4e00\u4e2a\u9519\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u624d\u4f1a\u9047\u5230\u5bf9\u7684\u4eba\u3002<span>&nbsp;<\/span><br \/>  You will not meet the right person unless you can leave the wrong person.<br \/>  &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p align=\"left\" style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 20px; orphans: auto; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\">\u5973\u4eba\u7ecf\u6d4e\u8d8a\u72ec\u7acb\u8d8a\u4e0d\u9700\u8981\u5a5a\u59fb\uff0c\u6295\u8d44\u7537\u4eba\u4e0d\u5982\u6295\u8d44\u81ea\u5df1\u3002<span>&nbsp;<\/span><br \/>  For women, there is no need to marry if they are eco<em><\/em>nomically independent. It is much wiser for a woman to invest in herself rather than in a man.<\/p>\n<p>  &nbsp;<br \/>  \u8c08\u604b\u7231\uff0c\u662f\u8ddf\u4e00\u4e2a\u4eba\u7684\u4f18\u70b9\u5728\u8c08\u604b\u7231\uff0c\u8c08\u7ed3\u5a5a\uff0c\u662f\u8ddf\u4e00\u4e2a\u4eba\u7684\u7f3a\u70b9\u5728\u8fc7\u65e5\u5b50\u3002<span>&nbsp;<\/span><br \/>  Dating someone is actually akin to dating with that person&rsquo;s merits, wheras marrying someone is the same as marrying a person&rsquo;s shortcomings.<\/p>\n<p align=\"left\" style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 20px; orphans: auto; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\">\u5a5a\u59fb\u6cd5\u4e0d\u4fdd\u62a4\u611f\u60c5\uff0c\u6cd5\u5f8b\u6ca1\u6709\u89c4\u5b9a\u4e00\u4e2a\u4eba\u5fc5\u987b\u7231\u4e00\u4e2a\u4eba\u4e00\u8f88\u5b50\u3002<br \/>  Love is not legally protected by marriage law, and you will never find a regulation stipulating that one must love another for the rest of his or her life.<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 20px; orphans: auto; text-align: start; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 20px; orphans: auto; text-align: start; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>  <span style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 20px; orphans: auto; text-align: -webkit-left; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px; display: inline !im<em><\/em>portant; float: none;&#8221;><br type=\"_moz\" \/>  <\/span><br style=\"color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; letter-spacing: normal; line-height: 20px; orphans: auto; text-align: -webkit-left; text-indent: 0px; text-transform: none; white-space: normal; widows: auto; word-spacing: 0px; -webkit-text-stroke-width: 0px;\" \/><\/div>\n<div class=\"chine-tie-zi-nei-rong-zhi-hou\" id=\"chine-3226729938\"><script async src=\"\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-1889418300638825\" crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script><ins class=\"adsbygoogle\" style=\"display:block;\" data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-1889418300638825\" \ndata-ad-slot=\"7273022922\" \ndata-ad-layout-key=\"-gw-3+1f-3d+2z\"\ndata-ad-format=\"fluid\"><\/ins>\n<script> \n(adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); \n<\/script>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u6211\u76f8\u4fe1\u7231\u60c5\uff0c\u4e5f\u76f8\u4fe1\u7231\u60c5\u4f1a\u6b7b\uff0c\u5728\u6211\u770b\u6765\u6ca1\u6709\u4ec0\u4e48\u662f\u901a\u8fc7\u5a5a\u59fb\u624d\u80fd\u5f97\u5230\u7684\uff0c\u4f46\u4e24\u4eba\u4e4b\u95f4\u6700\u73cd\u8d35\u7684\u611f\u60c5\u53ea\u6709\u901a\u8fc7\u5a5a\u59fb\u624d\u53ef\u80fd\u4ea7\u751f\u3002<br \/>\n  I believe in love and I also believe that love will die. In my eyes, nothing in the world can be achieved only through marriage, but the most precious feelings between two individuals do grow as a result of marriage.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[2832,2853],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12711","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-daily-chinese","category-spoken-chinese"],"views":211,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/my\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12711","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/my\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/my\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/my\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/my\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12711"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/my\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12711\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/my\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12711"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/my\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12711"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/chinesemoment.com\/my\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12711"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}